Talking Stage

Relationship type

The early phase of dating where you're texting and seeing each other but not officially dating.

What it means

The talking stage is the ambiguous early period of two people getting to know each other — texting, occasional dates — before either has committed to dating. It can last from days to months. The term has become a generational shorthand for the in-between zone that defines most app-mediated romance.

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Make the first impression the easy part.

Turn the photo you have into a better photo or a short video. Still you, on a good day.

You can't control the reply. You can control the photo.

Fix the light and color on the photo you have, put yourself somewhere new, or turn it into a short video. Most photos are ready in about 60 seconds.