Future Faking

Behavior

Talking about a shared future to manufacture commitment, without intent to follow through.

What it means

Future faking is when someone discusses long-term plans — moving in, vacations, meeting families — early and often, but without actual intent to act on any of it. It's a manipulation pattern that creates a sense of investment in the relationship before the relationship has earned that investment. Often paired with love bombing.

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