Second Date

Phenomenon

The first date after a successful first date, usually the real test of compatibility.

What it means

The second date is generally where attraction either deepens or quietly fades. First dates are usually 'do we click enough to see each other again?' Second dates ask 'is there actually something here?' Conversion from first to second date is one of the most-tracked metrics in app-dating culture.

Selfie of a woman taken in a car at nightWoman in a navy blazer, a clean, well lit work headshot

Make the first impression the easy part.

Turn the photo you have into a better photo or a short video. Still you, on a good day.

You can't control the reply. You can control the photo.

Fix the light and color on the photo you have, put yourself somewhere new, or turn it into a short video. Most photos are ready in about 60 seconds.