Orbiting

Behavior

Watching your stories and engaging with your social media after going silent on direct conversation.

What it means

Orbiting is when an ex or someone who ghosted you continues to view your Instagram stories, like your posts, or watch your activity — but doesn't message you. The behavior is named because they're 'in your orbit' without making contact. It's increasingly common given how easy social-media monitoring is.

You can't control the reply. You can control the photo.

Fix the light and color on the photo you have, put yourself somewhere new, or turn it into a short video. Most photos are ready in about 60 seconds.