Demisexual

Identity

Only experiencing sexual attraction after an emotional bond has formed.

What it means

Demisexual describes a person who doesn't feel sexual attraction unless they've developed a strong emotional connection first. It falls under the asexual spectrum. Demisexuality is distinct from preference — it's not 'I prefer to wait,' it's 'attraction doesn't happen at all without that bond.'

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