Thirst Trap

Phenomenon

A photo deliberately posed to attract sexual attention.

What it means

Thirst trap is a deliberately-attractive photo — gym selfie, beach shot, low-cut top — posted to elicit comments, likes, or DMs. The phrase has lost some of its original snark and is often used self-aware now ('here's my obligatory thirst trap'). On dating apps, thirst traps work less well than people think — they convert eyeballs but not high-quality matches.

Bathroom mirror selfie of an older manOlder man in a warm studio portrait

Make the first impression the easy part.

Turn the photo you have into a better photo or a short video. Still you, on a good day.

You can't control the reply. You can control the photo.

Fix the light and color on the photo you have, put yourself somewhere new, or turn it into a short video. Most photos are ready in about 60 seconds.